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Post by Backdrifter on Feb 3, 2019 16:39:23 GMT
Kudos to the above for post-xmas xmas pudding continuation (perhaps even significantly PRE-xmas).
Dinner consumed, washed down with a very good malbec and now it's sofa & tv time. Pudding and port phase still to come.
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Post by tysilio2 on Feb 3, 2019 17:55:33 GMT
Watched a Sky Arts program on the Doobie Brothers. What a band they were/are. Only knew the stuff with Michael McDonald and never knew their history or back catalogue. Fabulous harmonies and seemingly nice (and still coherent) guys.
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Post by anita on Feb 5, 2019 10:22:06 GMT
Just been to my doctors for appointment but told nothing for 2 weeks. - Walked out. They have a sign up that they can take on new patients. - Why, when they can't cope with those they already have?
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Post by kathryn on Feb 5, 2019 20:31:53 GMT
Got called a snowflake by a Bohemian Rhapsody Stan account on Twitter. First time anyone has levelled that accusation at me - I feel like there should be a badge or something!
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Post by daisy24601 on Feb 5, 2019 20:34:14 GMT
^Good grief, I have really started to loathe that word.
I've been made redundant for the second time in 6 months. Constant rejections from jobs or no reply at all is getting difficult. I'm either not experienced or too experienced! I'd like to work in theatre in some capacity, any tips would be much appreciated!
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Post by beatrice on Feb 5, 2019 21:14:32 GMT
With snow up to our knees and (very slippery) sludge all over the roads, biking to uni is becoming more of an adventure by the day.
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Post by justfran on Feb 5, 2019 21:49:07 GMT
^Good grief, I have really started to loathe that word.
I've been made redundant for the second time in 6 months. Constant rejections from jobs or no reply at all is getting difficult. I'm either not experienced or too experienced! I'd like to work in theatre in some capacity, any tips would be much appreciated! Not sure on your location or how many local theatres there are to you - but depending on your area of interest why not apply to work FOH or as a dresser if you’d prefer BOH? Once you start working in a venue you’ll learn a lot about how it runs and will have the chance to get involved with other departments and then use your experience to apply for other roles. If you don’t have a large professional theatre nearby (or no vacancies) then maybe try volunteering at a local amateur venue? Good luck 😊
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Post by kathryn on Feb 6, 2019 0:02:30 GMT
^Good grief, I have really started to loathe that word.
I've been made redundant for the second time in 6 months. Constant rejections from jobs or no reply at all is getting difficult. I'm either not experienced or too experienced! I'd like to work in theatre in some capacity, any tips would be much appreciated! Being made redundant really sucks, and twice in 6 months is just....ugh! Best of luck with the job hunt.
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Post by daisy24601 on Feb 6, 2019 0:06:12 GMT
^Good grief, I have really started to loathe that word.
I've been made redundant for the second time in 6 months. Constant rejections from jobs or no reply at all is getting difficult. I'm either not experienced or too experienced! I'd like to work in theatre in some capacity, any tips would be much appreciated! Not sure on your location or how many local theatres there are to you - but depending on your area of interest why not apply to work FOH or as a dresser if you’d prefer BOH? Once you start working in a venue you’ll learn a lot about how it runs and will have the chance to get involved with other departments and then use your experience to apply for other roles. If you don’t have a large professional theatre nearby (or no vacancies) then maybe try volunteering at a local amateur venue? Good luck 😊 I'm in London so plenty of theatres around but can't get a FOH job, applied for many. Badgered theatres large and small about giving me even unpaid work and nothing. I don't know what tips I'm asking for really, maybe someone knows of something or knows somebody I can contact!
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Post by daisy24601 on Feb 6, 2019 0:10:46 GMT
Also just really down tonight and don't see the point of life. I wanted to talk to my housemate about it when I came home, but she was in a low mood too so didn't feel I could. So I'm writing it here!
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Post by londonmzfitz on Feb 6, 2019 10:26:59 GMT
Also just really down tonight and don't see the point of life. I wanted to talk to my housemate about it when I came home, but she was in a low mood too so didn't feel I could. So I'm writing it here! Hugs and ditto to the comment above about being made redundant sucks. Big time! Especially in Winter when there isn't even the incentive of "oh, it's a nice day, I'll catch some rays". I saw a post recently on Facebook from someone looking for FOH work, there were some useful comments on there (sorry, don't have access to FB at work). I do know someone working at the Prince Edward who responded on that - drop your CV into all the theatres, wear a big smile dropping it off, etc. I'm on a couple of Theatre-type FB pages so you might need to poke around. Low moods in Winter are commonplace so don't get too down on yourself. Always here to listen x
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Post by daisy24601 on Feb 6, 2019 11:37:35 GMT
I'm afraid it's not just a winter thing but thanks for your kind post. I have done a bit of CV handing in. I got invited to a recruitment day for one theatre, where in my eyes almost everyone there would've been suitable for the job yet I didn't get it and they advertised again the following week! Don't know what they are looking for!
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Post by londonmzfitz on Feb 6, 2019 14:27:03 GMT
I'm afraid it's not just a winter thing but thanks for your kind post. I have done a bit of CV handing in. I got invited to a recruitment day for one theatre, where in my eyes almost everyone there would've been suitable for the job yet I didn't get it and they advertised again the following week! Don't know what they are looking for! My kid worked for The Barbican for a bit, their interview was off the blooming wall ... take an object and explain to the group (there was a group of them) another use for it. He picked up a chair, turned it upside down and tried to sell it to them as a piece of art, or something. Just a demonstration of being able to engage with others, maintain eye contact, keep chatting etc, I guess. Anyhow, he got the job but didn't like it much, left not long after. Gawd, interviews are HARD! I went for one some years ago where I was told that logging the previous weeks timesheets for colleagues would be my job, and they had to be done before 10am Monday morning. Well, of course what I should have said was - "how many timesheets are there" and "I would plan to be in the office early every Monday". Flummuxed, though, I said something like "well that sounds kind of unworkable to me" because I was at that time working with a team of 15 guys working on 8-9 projects each and they'd never have their timesheets done for me for Monday blooming morning .... Sometimes the interviewers are looking for answers they've already got panned out in their heads.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 6, 2019 15:34:23 GMT
Yeah, a lot of interviewers seem to forget that an interview is a two-way conversation where, just as the interviewer is trying to find the right person for the job, the interviewee is trying to find the right job for themselves. It really shouldn't be like some kind of X Factor audition, where they sit behind a table in judgement while you do all the work trying to impress them. I wish more interviewers remembered that, and also I wish more interviewees remembered it too, there are too many tales of job-seekers being confronted with outright hostility and time-wasting...
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Post by kathryn on Feb 6, 2019 18:51:40 GMT
I have been on an interviewing team when it was startlingly clear that the (very nice and keen) interviewee just wasn’t suitable for the job. It was a bit of a phew moment that it was so clear because interviewing can be a real crapshoot - people come in and say all the right things and then turn out to be entirely useless when you hire them.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 6, 2019 19:40:46 GMT
Today in work I was helping (well sitting with the bemused Aussie project manager observing the chaos) while a hypothetical visit from the Italian Ambassador was planned...and then five minutes later a volunteer was telling me about the first patient she had with crabs when she used to be a nurse...I mean it keeps you humble if nothing else.
Also as above i'm not sure any interview could prepare anyone for half the stuff I encounter either...
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Post by beatrice on Feb 6, 2019 21:38:41 GMT
I had a phone interview today which did NOT go well. Not thrilled with myself and fingers crossed that the interviewer didn't see the same flaws I did.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 7, 2019 0:21:22 GMT
I had a phone interview today which did NOT go well. Not thrilled with myself and fingers crossed that the interviewer didn't see the same flaws I did. I always find things like that ended up seeming better to the other person than they did to me - I am my own worst critic. And that tendency is causing me all sorts of anxiety flare-ups at the minute - really struggling to cope with the amount of stress I am under at work and it's only going to get worse...
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Post by Backdrifter on Feb 7, 2019 18:35:02 GMT
just as the interviewer is trying to find the right person for the job, the interviewee is trying to find the right job for themselves. It really shouldn't be like some kind of X Factor A while back, I went to an interview at a university, that lasted all day and was a bit like the X Factor. All 6 interviewees were gathered together, and we all had to sit at a PC and write a report based on a government white paper. I sat there clacketing away at the keyboard, thinking what an unhinged stream of consciousness I was whacking down. Then we each had to stand in front of a room full of 30 staff and do a presentation and get grilled in a Q&A. Back in the waiting room after my session, the next guy came back in, bright red of face, sweating profusely and shaking, muttering "I hate doing stuff like that." The lead interviewer came in and asked 3 of the group to go with him. The rest of us looked at each other and said, either they've failed or we have and they're being taken through to some special inner sanctum! As it turned out, they came back in and Apprentice-style gathered their things and said they were being sent home. The rest of the day was a panel interview in which I went last as I has the shortest journey. I didn't get it. I was actually quite glad as, massive salary as it had, it would've meant moving to Oxford which I suddenly realised I had no desire to do. In fact, why did I even apply for it?! A year or so later, I happened into the other person who didn't get it and she said the successful candidate was being absolutely worked into the ground and had no life to speak of beyond the job. Phew.
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Post by Dawnstar on Feb 7, 2019 18:58:21 GMT
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Post by showgirl on Feb 9, 2019 5:42:16 GMT
@theatremonkey, I'm really sorry to hear about your serious telecoms issues this week and am glad to see things are improving. There I was, getting really fed up because my wifi kept dropping, only to find that you and probably thousands of others in the area had been affected by a major and prolonged outage. That would be bad enough at any time but when you need it to run a business and it leaves you with lots to catch up, it's even worse. I hope BT/Openreach offer some compensation idc.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2019 6:05:09 GMT
I had major telecoms issues a couple of years ago when I was cut off for ten days. A third-party contractor employed by BT to do some work in a cabinet near the exchange forgot the basic rule of "put things back where they came from" and managed to miswire a large number of houses in the area. (Note to managers: it's not cutting costs when you employ the cheapest contractor to do a day's work and spend a week fixing their mistakes.)
My phone line was restored within a day or two, but getting the Internet access back took over a week longer because my ISP is not BT, and BT's idiot call centre refused to accept that a problem with my connection could be a fault on their network even though I accessed my ISP over the same BT-owned lines that carried the disrupted telephone service. All the things that the call centre suggested were things that could not possibly work. (How stupid do you have to be to think that "reinstall windows" will fix an incorrect configuration at the exchange?) I knew exactly where the problem was but the call centre staff refused to believe me. Eventually I managed to get an engineer sent out, and he agreed with me about where the fault was and had it fixed within an hour.
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Post by david on Feb 9, 2019 9:23:56 GMT
Woke up this morning to a text from my sister to say that I am now officially an uncle! Everyone is well. The little lady is going to get spoilt rotten.
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Post by Jon on Feb 10, 2019 1:20:59 GMT
I find job hunting a real slog, I think I use LinkedIn as my primary social media more than I do Facebook or Instagram.
I have had a couple of interviews although none of them successful although I have asked for feedback because you can learn from your errors.
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Post by daisy24601 on Feb 10, 2019 18:37:35 GMT
I find job hunting a real slog, I think I use LinkedIn as my primary social media more than I do Facebook or Instagram. I have had a couple of interviews although none of them successful although I have asked for feedback because you can learn from your errors. It's a really draining process! Most of the rejection emails I've had state that they can't offer feedback but it would be useful as I had a few interviews for similar jobs and didn't get any of them and I'd like to know what I'm doing wrong. Problem is, it could either be the case they they didn't like me or find me suitable at all OR that I was perfectly fine but someone else was a bit better.
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