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Post by stevej678 on Nov 9, 2017 18:12:51 GMT
Interesting idea from The Lowry who are asking people to register interest in a Going Solo initiative where you can book a discounted ticket as a solo theatregoer for specific performances and they'll organise a pre-show meeting of some sort so that (if you want) you can "get to know your fellow theatregoers in a relaxed setting". www.thelowry.com/discount-tickets/going-solo
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Post by BurlyBeaR on Nov 9, 2017 19:29:29 GMT
Discount YES. Get to know your fellow theatregoers NO TA!
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2017 19:36:25 GMT
Interesting idea from The Lowry who are asking people to register interest in a Going Solo initiative where you can book a discounted ticket as a solo theatregoer for specific performances and they'll organise a pre-show meeting of some sort so that (if you want) you can "get to know your fellow theatregoers in a relaxed setting". www.thelowry.com/discount-tickets/going-soloSounds like a really nice idea, based on some feedback they’ve received, and hopefully they’ll encourage some new audience members from it. I can see it appealing especially to older folk, maybe bereaved or separated, and if this is the case it is a commendable initiative. If it encourages youngsters too, perhaps isolated from peers by their love of Drama, then it’s all for the good. Discounting seems generous too. I wish the Lowrie success...
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Post by showgirl on Nov 9, 2017 19:44:05 GMT
I have mixed views on this. On the one hand, I'm in favour of anything which genuinely encourages more people to go to the theatre but on the other, doing things on your own is perfectly normal, yet this scheme seems to suggest that it isn't and even that people might need help to enable them to function if they're not in groups or couples - a view I'd like to debunk, not foster.
Obviously I see caiaphas's point about the bereaved, who might not be in the habit of going solo, though those in that situation might find this too far beyond their comfort zone and drawing unwanted attention to their newly single status.
Edit: just thought that, if the discount is decent, it's also open to abuse, as unless all the solo bookers are seated together (so presumably not allowed to choose their own seats), what's to stop people booking individually but intending to go with others as normal?
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Post by sf on Nov 9, 2017 20:09:09 GMT
Interesting idea from The Lowry who are asking people to register interest in a Going Solo initiative where you can book a discounted ticket as a solo theatregoer for specific performances and they'll organise a pre-show meeting of some sort so that (if you want) you can "get to know your fellow theatregoers in a relaxed setting". www.thelowry.com/discount-tickets/going-soloI go to the theatre on my own all the time, and I can't imagine anything worse.
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Post by BurlyBeaR on Nov 9, 2017 20:24:32 GMT
I suppose it’s a case of “nice for those who want it” so good luck to them.
Personally I think going to the theatre/cinema/museum etc on your own is one of the last bastions of independence we have. None of these activities require company. I love going with people but I love going alone as much, if not more.
I’m not sure if people who wouldn’t have the confidence to go alone would have the confidence to go to a meeting with a bunch of strangers but I’m sure it’s worth a try.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2017 20:25:20 GMT
From the Lowry website: Going Solo?One of the things we hear from audiences a lot is 'I would go the theatre more often, but I don't have anyone to go with'. So, this got us thinking. And we came up with Going Solo - a night where you can book a discounted ticket, and we organise a pre-show meeting of some sort so that (if you want) you can get to know some of your fellow theatregoers in a relaxed setting. If this sounds interesting, email goingsolo@thelowry.com and we'll keep you up to date as future events are planned.It sounds to me like they are responding to some specific feedback. Clearly it won’t suit all, as made clear by three posters now, but it will suit some. It might even be a bit of a lifeline for them. (I seem to remember another poster, whose name I can remember but who I won’t reveal, who mentioned that a Meetup Group for single theatregoers saved her sanity. Or words to that effect.) It’s the ‘some’ they are working for. I don’t think they have any intention of making anyone do anything they don’t want to do. I too love an afternoon out at the theatre on my own. I often meet some lovely people. But sometimes I meet some real duds.
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Post by showgirl on Nov 9, 2017 20:25:25 GMT
Actually, why not the reverse, i.e. a scheme preventing people from sitting with their chosen companion(s), thus forcing them to survive for 45 - 60 minutes per act without their human crutch and therefore being obliged to see how the other half live? It is possible to cope without being joined at the hip or hunting in packs!
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Post by stevej678 on Nov 9, 2017 20:49:59 GMT
Hopefully if The Lowry are embracing that people do go to the theatre alone, they'll drop the standard 'no leaving single seats' policy when booking online which gives the impression that solo theatregoing is inconceivable.
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Post by BurlyBeaR on Nov 9, 2017 21:47:55 GMT
Hopefully if The Lowry are embracing that people do go to the theatre alone, they'll drop the standard 'no leaving single seats' policy when booking online which gives the impression that solo theatregoing is inconceivable. More likely a ploy to fill those pesky singles. Yes! I’m a cynic. Sorry about it!
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Post by anthony40 on Nov 9, 2017 22:12:11 GMT
(May have mentioned this previously) but 99% of the time a Lone Wolf
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Post by sf on Nov 9, 2017 22:25:54 GMT
Actually, why not the reverse, i.e. a scheme preventing people from sitting with their chosen companion(s), thus forcing them to survive for 45 - 60 minutes per act without their human crutch and therefore being obliged to see how the other half live? It is possible to cope without being joined at the hip or hunting in packs! Some people seem to find it remarkably difficult. Take the gentleman who "wrote" the "article" I've linked below, for example. It's the single most moronic piece I have ever read about the act of going to the theatre - but what comes through loudly and clearly is that he has issues. ATG blog: going to the theatre alone
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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2017 1:31:48 GMT
Interesting idea from The Lowry who are asking people to register interest in a Going Solo initiative where you can book a discounted ticket as a solo theatregoer for specific performances and they'll organise a pre-show meeting of some sort so that (if you want) you can "get to know your fellow theatregoers in a relaxed setting". www.thelowry.com/discount-tickets/going-soloThat would be an absolute nightmare for me. I am a lone wolf theatregoer and the idea of a group of lone wolves being brought together rather defeats the object. On the other hand I have noticed that quite a few people attend the Theatre alone and I enjoy striking up spontaneous conversations with those who sit next to me. They tend to see a lot and I love comparing notes with them.
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Post by showgirl on Nov 10, 2017 5:48:43 GMT
Absolutely, @cleopatraskryker - though I am not usually the one to start a conversation unless it follows from a remark such as apologising in advance to the person next to me as I will need to rush off at the end. I see a lot of lone patrons at the cinema, too, but you can also have the best of both worlds there: I sat next to a very garrulous lady at the cinema on Wednesday. She was with her husband, who was sitting on the far side and uttered not one syllable for the whole 2 hours, so far as I could tell (he seemed merely to be there to do her bidding re drinks, etc), and who might have been enjoying a well-earned rest from her attention! But I quite enjoyed our chat, rather one-sided as it was.
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Post by bimse on Nov 10, 2017 14:09:11 GMT
I know lone theatre visits can be difficult for some . After my partner died I found it incredibly difficult to attend a theatre or cinema by myself. My first attempt was a cinema relay from the NT, I walked past the cinema twice before thinking , if I don’t go in, I’ll never go in. I went in , enjoyed the performance , and haven’t looked back. I often went to the theatre alone, even travelled to Zurich three times to see opera performances by myself , and to London several times. It’s empowering, and gives you “me” time, and you’re not having to please or wait for others. I holidayed alone as well, city breaks and long haul. It’s an achievement. I’m now once again happily partnered , but I’m happy to attend the theatre by myself, in fact it’s a good idea to not be in each others’ pocket all the time.
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Post by anita on Nov 10, 2017 14:15:33 GMT
Always go by myself unless I win a pair of tickets in which case I try to rope someone in but never with husband as he's not interested.
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Post by bimse on Nov 10, 2017 15:10:03 GMT
Always go by myself unless I win a pair of tickets in which case I try to rope someone in but never with husband as he's not interested. The worst case scenario is having someone along who doesn’t want to be there , or isn’t enjoying the show. They will spoil your enjoyment. You are better off alone than being in that situation, plus you don’t have to return a favour (said he, selfishly!).
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Post by duncan on Nov 10, 2017 16:20:18 GMT
Interesting idea from The Lowry who are asking people to register interest in a Going Solo initiative where you can book a discounted ticket as a solo theatregoer for specific performances and they'll organise a pre-show meeting of some sort so that (if you want) you can "get to know your fellow theatregoers in a relaxed setting". www.thelowry.com/discount-tickets/going-solo
I think that totally mistakes why people go to the theatre on their own, if I want a shag I'll fire up Tinder rather than see King Lear.
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Post by martin1965 on Nov 10, 2017 19:07:00 GMT
Interesting idea from The Lowry who are asking people to register interest in a Going Solo initiative where you can book a discounted ticket as a solo theatregoer for specific performances and they'll organise a pre-show meeting of some sort so that (if you want) you can "get to know your fellow theatregoers in a relaxed setting". www.thelowry.com/discount-tickets/going-soloThat would be an absolute nightmare for me. I am a lone wolf theatregoer and the idea of a group of lone wolves being brought together rather defeats the object. On the other hand I have noticed that quite a few people attend the Theatre alone and I enjoy striking up spontaneous conversations with those who sit next to me. They tend to see a lot and I love comparing notes with them. Yep sounds like a freaking nightmare to me! Frankly nothing to do with them
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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2017 19:44:35 GMT
I love going on my own, and have done for years. About 3 years ago though I made a new work friend and she also loves theatre, so we usually go together now and I've got used to it. We seem to like the same things so it works well for us. In the past, when I went with other people I'd be loving something and it spoilt it a bit to see they were hating it, or I'd be watching them constantly hoping they got it, that kind of thing. I still go on my own sometimes and I do really like it - I can leave at the interval if I hate it, and I don't need to worry if someone else thinks I'm mad for choosing this. I do prefer going with my current theatre friend though, because we do tend to agree about things and it's nice to be able to discuss it afterwards and to reminisce months later.
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Post by grannyjx6 on Nov 10, 2017 20:26:50 GMT
I used to organise theatre trips when I was working and it was a nightmare chasing round after folks for payment with quite a few dropping out at the last minute and even a bit of bickering about where they were sitting. (I never put money in though as the theatre would allow group bookings with payment nearer the date). When I took early retirement/redundancy I was asked if I would carry on but did not and that is when I started going on my own if it was something my husband or friends were not really interested in. Yes, it is nice to have someone to discuss the show with, but the upside is you can go exactly when you want, sit where you want and if it would be a family member I went with, obviously it's half the cost. If you have a like minded friend, then that's great of course. I have also left at the interval a couple of times and even not gone to a show I've booked on a couple of occasions, if something better has come up.
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Post by shady23 on Nov 10, 2017 23:30:51 GMT
Going by yourself is definitely easier. I like to get cheap tickets as I am generally skint, and can cope with a restricted view seat but would your guest complain? My main gripe though is if I am going with someone straight from work it turns into an "occasion" and after a restaurant meal and drinks it comes in a long way from the theatre on the cheap visit I would prefer.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2017 23:42:01 GMT
The idea kinda doesn't bother me either way. I go to the theatre alone often, but end up chatting to anyone and everyone around me because I just like chatting to strangers and you never know what you will hear or find out.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 11, 2017 11:24:15 GMT
Interesting idea from The Lowry who are asking people to register interest in a Going Solo initiative where you can book a discounted ticket as a solo theatregoer for specific performances and they'll organise a pre-show meeting of some sort so that (if you want) you can "get to know your fellow theatregoers in a relaxed setting". www.thelowry.com/discount-tickets/going-solo
I think that totally mistakes why people go to the theatre on their own, if I want a shag I'll fire up Tinder rather than see King Lear.
I laughed a LOT at that. But I agree, and also a friend and I were discussing this week how we are VERY careful in taking respective partners to anything- if it's something you love the tension of someone you love (or at least like the look of!) hating it is too much. Although case in point my friend took her new-ish fella to 'The Band's Visit' last week and they both hated it, so at least it gave them something to talk about over dinner... Anyway, locally I spend most of my theatre visits AVOIDING people....
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