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Post by intoanewlife on Feb 20, 2020 17:06:22 GMT
Just throwing this out there...
What did she see on his phone that finally sent her over the edge that night?
People who are abuse sufferers do not blurt out things like 'she is crazy' & 'I was completely normal before I met her', there is far too much shame involved and such information usually has to be coaxed out of victims at a later stage.
He started a smear campaign from day 1.
Why was he so against pressing charges & proceeding with a court case?
If this abuse had been going on for so long, why did he not leave the relationship once it hit this point?
Why despite being told to have no contact was he continually posting stuff to her Instagram account and yet she never once contacted him?
Why is he telling everyone they are still together, posting Valentine's Day pics and calling her 'useless' and then deleting it AFTER it's been reported in the press/online and she has obviously seen them.
His behaviour is all very odd, slightly threatening and taunting like he is still 'in charge' of the situation from afar.
I think he was probably more scared of what was going to come out in court than she was.
Her actions are far closer to those of victims of abuse than his are.
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Post by Cardinal Pirelli on Feb 20, 2020 17:13:54 GMT
Just throwing this out there... What did she see on his phone that finally sent her over the edge that night? People who are abuse sufferers do not blurt out things like 'she is crazy' & 'I was completely normal before I met her', there is far too much shame involved and such information usually has to be coaxed out of victims at a later stage. Why was he so against pressing charges & proceeding with a court case? Why despite being told to have no contact was he continually posting stuff to her Instagram account and yet she never once contacted him? Why is he telling everyone they are still together, posting Valentine's Day pics and calling her 'useless' and then deleting it AFTER it's been reported in the press/online and she has obviously seen them. His behaviour is all very odd, slightly threatening and taunting like he is still 'in charge' of the situation from afar. I think he was probably more scared of what was going to come out in court than she was. This sort of thing isn’t really anybody’s business, apart from the people involved and the authorities. This is my major concern over this; it is not important news, it isn’t in the public interest. It is just gossip spread by media to generate revenue.
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Post by intoanewlife on Feb 20, 2020 17:19:33 GMT
Just throwing this out there... What did she see on his phone that finally sent her over the edge that night? People who are abuse sufferers do not blurt out things like 'she is crazy' & 'I was completely normal before I met her', there is far too much shame involved and such information usually has to be coaxed out of victims at a later stage. Why was he so against pressing charges & proceeding with a court case? Why despite being told to have no contact was he continually posting stuff to her Instagram account and yet she never once contacted him? Why is he telling everyone they are still together, posting Valentine's Day pics and calling her 'useless' and then deleting it AFTER it's been reported in the press/online and she has obviously seen them. His behaviour is all very odd, slightly threatening and taunting like he is still 'in charge' of the situation from afar. I think he was probably more scared of what was going to come out in court than she was. This sort of thing isn’t really anybody’s business, apart from the people involved and the authorities. This is my major concern over this; it is not important news, it isn’t in the public interest. It is just gossip spread by media to generate revenue. If it is a case of abuse where the victim has ended their life I think it is much more important public information than say where Philip Schofield wants to put his penis.
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Post by Cardinal Pirelli on Feb 20, 2020 17:27:18 GMT
This sort of thing isn’t really anybody’s business, apart from the people involved and the authorities. This is my major concern over this; it is not important news, it isn’t in the public interest. It is just gossip spread by media to generate revenue. If it is a case of abuse where the victim has ended their life I think it is much more important public information than say where Philip Schofield wants to put his penis. If this whole affair hadn’t been plastered over front pages with those who like reading about that sort of thing subsequently adding their own tuppence worth (despite having zero informationj, it is quite likely that she would still be alive. We’ve already heard about how badly this reporting is affecting others with similar thoughts, it would be better for all concerned to let any legal proceedings take their course instead.
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Post by intoanewlife on Feb 20, 2020 17:37:04 GMT
If it is a case of abuse where the victim has ended their life I think it is much more important public information than say where Philip Schofield wants to put his penis. If this whole affair hadn’t been plastered over front pages with those who like reading about that sort of thing subsequently adding their own tuppence worth (despite having zero informationj, it is quite likely that she would still be alive. We’ve already heard about how badly this reporting is affecting others with similar thoughts, it would be better for all concerned to let any legal proceedings take their course instead. I agree 100% But I would also like to hear the truth of what happened as apposed to what you are describing which was to paint her as something I don't think she neccesarily was. It sounds like a very toxic relationship and in those kinds of relationships it is often appears completely different from the outside to what is actually going on inside it.
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Post by londonmzfitz on Feb 20, 2020 22:20:26 GMT
This sort of thing isn’t really anybody’s business, apart from the people involved and the authorities. This is my major concern over this; it is not important news, it isn’t in the public interest. It is just gossip spread by media to generate revenue. If it is a case of abuse where the victim has ended their life I think it is much more important public information than say where Philip Schofield wants to put his penis. If it is a case. IF. And if if it isn't then it's a bunch of journalists looking to fill pages of their rags with speculation.
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Post by theatreian on Mar 18, 2021 14:50:09 GMT
Don't know if any of you saw the Caroline Flack documentary last night on Channel 4. www.channel4.com/programmes/caroline-flack-her-life-and-deathIt was so sad to see such a waste of a life, but have to say her family were so dignified and she as so well liked and loved by those who knew her. Social media and the vile trolls that said such hateful things have a lot to answer for.
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